Expert: awhitecloud - 2/14/2010

Question
I have been wondering about age play. I am not sure alot about it, so I am not sure how or what to do and how to approach it with my Sir. He is normally open to almost anything but I am kinda nervous to talk to him about it. I know humiliation is something I enjoy, although not sure how this would play out. I will admit that diapers and pacifiers are a interest and though I have a bottle I have not used it, I got it just in case, but since I am unable to figure out how to bring the subject up with my Sir, I haven't used it. Another problem is that I am not sure I can do it without being sexual, although everything I read it talks about how when you get into Age play, young babies, or toddlers you shouldn't be sexual.

So would you please let me know anything you can about it. Links, information, and so forth.

Thank you and wishing you and yours a wonderful week

Answer
Well Age play is different for each couple.  The sexual aspects are not to be done during the time itself do to the damage that can be done to ones inner child.  But that does not mean it can not build up and tended to after wards.  

Maybe you need to just write out what you think and feel about it and well then ask him to read over it...that way you get the ball rolling and can have something to talk about.  He will then know that it is something your interested in.  Maybe even ask him some questions about age play, and see what he has to say on it all.  

Or print out something from on line and leave it on a table where you know he will see it and see what comes of it.  You need to be open and honest with your feeling to him on all fronts. So you need to even try more then one way to get it across.  Even leave the bottle out and see what he says about it.

I hope this has helped even a little.  I know you need to communicate with him.

Thanks for the question and I hope it works out for you both.

awhitecloud