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I have just entered a D/s relationship and im acually new to the whole thing. I am the Dominant of the relation ship but i don't know exactly how to "live the lifestyle." i have been goggling like mad BDSM articles and and info sites but my Submissive is asking for house rules and names which i completely draw blanks. What are typical rules?
Rules as in bed time what days to clean what...How to great you when you arrive home each day. What time to get up each day. What you expect from her like no shoes in the house, no cussing. To keep things clean and titty, You name it you can have a rule about it. Make them up and yes then you most be asking and making sure they are followed, if they are there needs to be some kind of reward, and well a punishment if they are not followed.
You might wish to join www.fetlife.com It has some great groups as well if you look me up there I might be able to head you into some of the groups that might help you best. My user name is the same there as here.
As for names I am not sure what she means, other then to call her little one or to have a pet name for her. Ask her what kind of names she is thinking of.
I hope this has helped you some.
awhitecloud
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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.
Experience
I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.
Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot
Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com
Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.
Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.
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