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hi my husband and i have been married for 20 yrs im 38 and hes 45 weve always been kinky in the bedroom but ive always had sedret fantasies of him controlling me when we have sex i was finally honest a yr ago and it has made our sex life hotter i love being tied up and spanked given sexual orders my question is we were thinking of attending a bdsm cliub in atlanta to meet other people and to watch other scenes to learn more about bdsm do you think that would be good place to start we also are interested in finding another dominant male for him to share me
I think it could be something to help you both learn...also I would say to look for a local area munch group where you can meet up and talk with others in the lifestyle, it will allow you both to learn more and have like minded friends.
Good luck, enjoy the party and well watch more then play at first.
awhitecloud
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| Comment | thank you so much for your response.i think we both need to learn more before we participate in public but watching could be educational and of course hot | ||
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awhitecloud
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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.
Experience
I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.
Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot
Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com
Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.
Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.
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