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i have been married for two years and with my wife for ten, i want to submit to her in the bedroom and have her dominate me when we are at home i want her to keep me naked for week-ends and i want her to spank and cane me i also want her to control my organisms and force me to eat my own cum. how do i go about telling her my feelings and making this happen without her thinking im a totaly wierd?

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this is not weird at all.

You need to maybe show her some web sites of such things and see how she takes on the subject.  Then talk with her about what it is your heart longs for.

Be open and honest with her and lead her into just what it is that you long to have, all she can say is no!

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

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I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

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Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

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D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

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I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

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I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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