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I am recently married, and throughout our dating we have done many master/slave or pet games/role-play, although since planning and getting married we have not been actively playing the master/slave roles. I am trying to start back up the habit because really, me as the slave, love being humiliated and ordered to obey my master.I am trying to start a punishment box and will show my husband the suggestions that will hopefully get him started, but i need help finding good punishments for our punishment box. I have researched but really need some suggestions.

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Well the punishment box can work some times the punishments do not always fit the crimes.  You need to talk with him and work on it together, it will work the best that way.  Tell him how you long for it to return to your lives and see if you can work together to gain which you are missing back into your lives.  Look for area munches and well then attend and meet other like minded people that could help you both to keep it alive as well give you both encouragement.

Thank you for the question.  Good luck.  I am sorry I do not hold much information about a punishment box.  I have ask around and have not found anyone that I know that uses one.

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

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I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

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Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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