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I have been in a relationship with my daddy for 19 months and we are madly deeply in love. We dated each other 25 years ago for a couple of years and had a very similar relationship even back then although unaware to us in our young age and experience. So we found each other 19 months ago but daddy lives in the USA and i live in the UK. I have been to see daddy 4 times and we talk on the phone and webcam and email all the time and for hours. I love the relationship we have. I love how daddy cares for me and looks after me and loves me and guides me and spoils me and disciplines me. I feel safe and loved and i'll do anything for my daddy.

In two weeks time, daddy is coming to live in the UK with me. We've waited forever for this day to come and im really excited about it but, i'm so scared that i wont be a proper babygirl for daddy. I'm worried that i wont please daddy. That I won't be the right/good babygirl for daddy.

Can you help me?
And, what does daddy expect of me?

Thank you

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Not sure I can help.

But I can tell you to just take it slow, if you have been doing it all this time and it is working out, I can not see a major problem with it now.

Just remember to communicate, with each other and be open and honest.  Yes this is a change it will have some ups as well downs, but I am sure you will get through them all.

Good luck and just take it slow, and know that he is feeling all the same things that you are as well.

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

Experience

I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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