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what is the best way to go about spanking the genitals of a sub? both the penis and balls of a male, and the vagina, hood, and clit of a female.

looking to cause a little pain, establish dominance, sexual pleasure in the sub, no serious injruy, and limited minor injury (like light bruising, and preferable none at all).

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Hi GT:

Arguably females can be easier to spank genitally than males. Penis itself can be spanked and manipulated relatively easily and can handle some  handling. It is the scrotum and testicles that are a bit delicate to trauma. Labia and the mostly external parts of the vagina can be slapped just as you do a nice ass/gluteus maximus, and following the same limits. You start slowly, increase slowly  and rest in periods, observe color and feel temperature. Perhaps a way to add a dimension of fun is to separate and fold the private parts, find out their sensitivity and keep them apart if you want to slap them. also instead of a hard hand you can chose to use a soft leather, wide strap flogger. It distributes the impact to give a nice warm THUD as opposed to a harsh slap. Still the psychological impact remains and the assertion of power and the pleasure enhanced and injury minimized.
I hope this helps. Be safe, and have fun.
Oscar G.

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From simple curiosity to elaborate scene set up and planning as well as technique, gear, link, advice, opinion, facts and reference among other colleagues. Social, spiritual, romantic and emotional issues related to BDSM Bondage being my focus and specialty, but love the sensual aspects of these arts.

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15 years researching, reading, interacting, dating and playing in the BDSM lifestyle actively as a Dom, used to be sub.
BDSM, Bondage, gags, blindfolds, knots, ropes, restrains and roleplaying

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