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First let me say thank you for your response about pleasing my Master (4/2/2010). Your insight and advice was very helpful. Because of your advise, I am ready to receive my collar and i wanted to know your opinion on the appropriateness of a gift for Him. Also, do you have any suggestions?
Hi daddysgirl69,
Its good to hear all went well and that my ideas before helped. Ideas for gifts (very appropriate by the way)... Has he made comments at all about a "wish" list of things he might like? What does he already have? Baring that I do have a couple of suggestions that I think give the impression a slave is giving her submission with the gift. A riding crop for example. I think that is very symbolic of you submitting to his demands and correction. If at all possible choose a "real" one. Go down to your local tack shop (Horse supplies). A very nice one can be purchased for around $30.00 here in the U.S. Another good idea would be a leather or chain leash (this is only a viable choice if you know your collar has an attachment for a leash of course.) If your finances are a bit more lucrative you could perhaps look into a flogger.
Good luck and congrats as you and your Master pass the threshold to a new era in your relationship.
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Eirene Nayar
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In a deep bonded Master slave relationship you submit yourself..body, soul, heart...everything. Not in one day or even a couple months..its a gradual progression. And the more you give up to your Master the happier and more carefree and more devoted in service you will become. You will not "loose you" you will find you. Everything else falls away to reveal the true you..unprotected by the walls needed in conventional society. You will feel more free in your bondage of slavery then you ever did in the vanilla world. All the dreams your heart ever searched for come full circle and a sense of peace and completeness pervades your body. I can help you with the discovery of learning if this life is right for you. Issues with the dynamics of the Master slave relationship. How to be the very best slave. How to know if a Master is the right fit for you. Dealing with the heartbreak and emotions when the relationship ends. How a polyamory household can work. What it means to accept a collar. Slave protocol. Long Distance relationships. How to take an online relationship and make it real life.
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I have been a collared slave for over 2 1/2 years. I started knowing nothing at all and have built on this over that time. So my experience is through actual experience. However I also remember what its like to be knew to the lifestyle. With all the fears, anxieties and excitement that has.
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