Expert: awhitecloud - 6/10/2010

Question
Hi,

I met this guy, really nice, sweet and handsome. Dressed well, in graduate school, has a good job and good manners.

So I Googled him and his myspace came up. On it he has a blog.

It is from 2004, and the blog is about all the girls he had sex with that he met at the bars, one night stands and wild escapades.

In it, he wrote how he met one girl, she was fat and ugly and he called her "pig girl" He took her home to fuck her but in the middle of kissing, she fell asleep and refused him sex. He woke her up and yanked her panties down, and said you can either sleep in my bed and have sex with me, or you can go home. She said no, rolled over and went to sleep again.

He was enraged with anger for tricking him into going home with her and then not giving her anything. He waited until she was asleep, and he rubbed his penis, and blew a load of semen all over her face, and left. All his myspace friends were posting saying how funny that was.

There was another posting, he worked at a gym as a personal trainer, and there was another personal trainer who was a woman, who yelled at him all the time. She was really mean and bitchy. So he went into her locker (she didn't lock it) found her shampoo bottle and shower gel/body wash, and he ejaculated into both of them, and came back to work. Other Myspace posters wrote under it saying how funny that was.

That was all in 2004, this is 2010 now.

My friends asked him about all this and he said, yes, it was all true.

Hmmm...it's been 6 years...I am SHOCKED reading this, that's all I can say.

Do you think he has changed by now? Should I quit dating him?

tina

Answer
I think it is something that you need to sit down with him and talk about.  Okay sometimes people do strange stuff when they are in collage, and it is to be liked and what have you.  No it does not make it right at all, but you need to talk with him and see what he has to say about it all.  Then you need to make the choice for yourself rather you date him any longer or not.  No one can tell you this.

Ask yourself if you like him or do you honestly love him? You need to write out the pros and cons of being with him and look at everything.

I am not sure what else to tell you, I know for myself I would be talking with him and trying to see what the whole story is behind it. And it may be something he enjoyed and it may have been posted to be something more then it way as the girl might have consented even and you just do not know.  There are a lot of factors missing here is all I know

Sorry I am not more help but I hope I have helped maybe a little bit.

Good luck I wish you the best and thank you for the question.

awhitecloud