Expert: awhitecloud - 6/22/2010

Question
This might be a problem that comes about often or not very often at all. I am young 16 years old and I know my submissive nature. I long for a boyfriend or partner that can take control. However I am unsure how to go about it. Is it bad that I know I am submissive at such a young age? And how should I go about understanding it and fulfilling the desire?

Answer
It is not bad that you know your a submissive at this age at all.  You are very enlightened as well and that can be a good thing.  The problem is that you know what it is you want, boys do not.  Young men do not think that way at this age.  You are going to be in for al long wait to get what it is that you want and need in your life.  Keep learning more about who and what you are there are some great sites you can learn from.  I would stay away form being a sub on line, for one you are not 18 years old and it could get you both into a world of trouble, no matter what some Dom might tell you.  Stay true and safe and say "NO".  Just know that you can be with a young man and that he may or may not ever be into the lifestyle you crave...talk with them and maybe in time open up to what your wanting, and help them learn you never know.  just be safe and take it all slow, please.

You are very young and safety comes first, there can be a lot of hidden danger from others out there so please go slow and SAFETY FIRST.

thanks for the question I wish you luck, and come and write again and let me know how you are doing, you can also reach me at awhitecloud@awhitecloud.org if you wish to talk more.

awhitecloud