Expert: Robert Rubel - 7/12/2010

Question
i search internet for web sites for to find master who controling my life and i having trouble find web sites place add to find master. i only 18 years old and i still pure and innocent and i asked maybe you can give me web sites addres or maybe you will able to find me master beweed age 35 to 55 who looking for very young girl to be he slave for life if you can have master send me e-mail at  or  and i will say thank you and i really hope you wlll fine master

from wipa lonely girl and need master as soon as prossible

Answer
Hi, wipa...

Very interesting letter and request.

What makes you think that you want a Master rather than a husband?  Husbands are supposed to take care of wives for the rest of their lives?  What characteristics are you looking for in a Master.  Your request is not specific enough to know what you are seeking.

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The website where you will find Masters and slaves and so forth is www.Fetlife.com  It's free.  If you do a search for the country you wish the Master to live in, you'll get a list of Fetlife members in that city/country.  If you go on that site, I'm Dr_Bob and you're welcome to do a "friends exchange" with me.

Beyond that, another very popular site is www.CollarMe.com  I don't trust this site as much, and I think that there are "Internet Masters" and "Internet Doms" on there who do not have "real time" kink experiences.

If you find a real Master, though, he's likely to ask what you bring into the relationship.  What are your skills, your goals, your hopes, etc.  

There are conferences both in Australia and New Zealand where you would learn a great deal and in the larger cities there will be BDSM clubs.

Best of luck,

Bob