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Expert: ziggy ziegler - 7/9/2010


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I am to write a letter to a Dom the is considering me as his sub. He called it a Dear Sir letter. Do you know what that is?
I understand that I can ask but since I have no deadline I thought I would try to figure it out myself if I can.
Thank you for reading this and your answer.

Answer
Dear Jenine.

Thank you for your question.

I have not heard of a dear sir letter... but i would imagine it is an equivalent to a letter of petition. Such letters usually entails the slave/submission expressing their desire to be in service and to surrender to the dominant. Additional thoughts might be how you view your surrender.. what it means to you and what you hope to offer him or her. Many times its a nice way to express to your potential dominant your intent. It lets them know that you understand what it is you want.

I wish you the best in your new relationship

I hope i have help... the important thing is that you express what is in your heart.

warmest regards
slave ziggy  

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I am available to answer questions pertaining to the Master slave dynamic. The slaves journey into submission, mentorship, service,leather lifestyle, household management, and training. My life's focus is assisting individuals to realized their fullest potential through self awareness.

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