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Where do I and my wife find a starting place, to get into BDSM.I am the more sexual one in the marriage, and would like my wife to expand alittle. please can you help?

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You really need to talk, a lot. You need to discuss what turns you both on, and what you might enjoy together. There's no magic way around that. You can read things together, or watch things together, but it's still going to come down to lots of communication.

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