Expert: Oscar G. - 8/13/2010

Question
I'm a 38year old male that has dreamed of being a full time slave.My question is I found a dom and told him what I was intrested in and he said how about part time for 6 months?What if I love it like I know I will?

Answer
Hi Steve:

The realities of relationships is that you never know how ell it will work until you try it. So part time for 6 months is a probation period on which the both of you will figure if it is a good fit for each of you.
How could you commit to submission/slavery right of the bat just by talking for a while? You may understand and match a lot mentally. But the daily realities of life will affect ANY relationship in ways unexpected. And by experiencing first hand how it works and each react to situation and each other Will give you a good grasp if to continue deeper or bail out in time. If you love it, yes you do run the risk of not being the right fit for your dom. But then again do you want just the slavery or a relationship? Both could be long lasting, but both have to be carefully entered and built.

I hope this helps. Be well, be safe have fun.
Oscar G.