Expert: Oscar G. - 8/10/2010

Question
Why do some guys love using urethral sounds and say it feels good, and others say it's the worst pain they have ever felt? I have a weird fetish about this, and what I really want to know is what a guy would do if he was restrained and someone did this to him, totally against his will? If it wasn't illegal I probably would have done it, already, but I can only fantasize about it, so I would like you to give me as many details about how that would feel, and what a guys reaction would be. What would he be saying, or would he be able to talk at all? That's part of the fascination for me. I just want to know exactly how it would be, like what he would say, and even what he would be thinking, too. What is true torture like? Even if a person could beg and plead for it to stop, there would come a point where they would see it wasn't going to do any good. What would happen then? What would be the long term effects of torture like this?
I hope you can give me some insight.
Thanks

Answer
Hi Laura:

It all amounts to tastes of the individual and also to the enjoyment of the first experiences of any kink or activity. Sounding has to be done carefully and gradually. Small diameters first with very clean sounds and surgical quality gear. The thing  about this is that you may still find willing volunteers if you learn how to do it for an already skilled domme or gay dom that would be willing to show you. Or a good friend nurse that could show you.

At times the reactions of guys is psychological if they see it. Most younger guys have never had anything inserted in their penis through their urethra, so it can be slightly shocking. If he is not gagged, of course he could  tell how it feels. This is not a torture procedure per se but a medical one. That being said, anything could become torture using the wrong approach and tools and pushing it past its limits. What you are asking me is more on the realm of speculation and fantasy, since everyone is different and the people  who would volunteer for sounding would expect it more as fun than pain torture. It is always up to the two people to negotiate safety and limits and go only as far as your skills can let you go.

I hope this helps you in your query.
Be safe, sane and have fun.
Oscar G.