Expert: Oscar G. - 9/12/2010

Question
Recently me and my master have been trying to think up some LD punishments for me. sadly we have had no luck. if you could do you think you could give us a list of punishments that would be good in LD relationship right now? any ideas you got would be grateful.

~Kitty Bella

Answer
Ms Kitty:

Apologies for the delay since i was out of country and incommunicado.
With long distance relationships you come to that barrier often enough. One has to be extra highly creative to overcome obstacles that create the illusion of the distance being  cut or non existent for situation that actually require one on one interface.
But i will try to guide you in finding ideas that ultimately suit you, but may not suit anyone else.

First, what is punishment enough? but what is sexy punishment or discipline punishment? Also i do not know you limits and tastes. You and your master have to work together in being  creative and imaginative in finding what you like/dislike or love to hate (or hate to love?) Punishments can vary from simple corner time on your knees (by honor system), to performing self bondage (safe and correct) or using BDSM devices that you can use safely by yourself, such as a ballgag for a while. IT all requires the honor system, but if you have a web camera or a digital camera with timer you can have proof of your performance and send to him live or  by mail.

Yet what is punishment and what is not is up to the individuals involved, since what is punishment for one may be bland or  even rewarding to others. And then again you have to define punishment as a means to what?  delight, punish, correct or discipline? or mere sadism/masochism?  The answer to that would give you ideas of what you could figure out you could do, yet it would be a one sided affair where you come with the ideas, you tell him and he then tells you to do it. He should be the one with the burden of creativity after finding out  by his knowledge of you what do direct you to do. Hoping that he would do similar things to you once you are face to face and in person.

Then again i hope this gave you a bit of insight of what you could try. Be well, be safe and have fun.
Oscar G