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I am a sub and my girlfriend and i early have sex because she us too last. When we do have sex she is drunk. I want to surrender myself completly but tonight she wanted to pierce my clit with a needle. I really want this but not when she's drunk. She hit my kneecap by mistake and when I ended the scene she just walked off. I really hate be abandoned like that. Then she just went to sleep. It doesn't help that recently we have been having violent physical arguements when she is drunk because she has a violent temper and becomes promiscuous when she is drunk. I hate this but I donæt want to leave her. What should I do?
Dear Danni
Your dominant partner IS an alcoholic and needs proper treatment as soon as possible.
As soon as she is SOBER, you must directly and honestly talk to her. Tell her that her addiction is destroying her, you and your relationship, and that if she wants you to continue to be HER sub she MUST seek treatment.
If she agrees, take an immediate appointment and go with her so that you can be part of the solution.
If she does not, terminate this relationship and seek another partner.
I know it is not easy but I am afraid you really do not have a choice.
Please keep me posted, rate my answer and leave a comment for me if you wish
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