Expert: extremeslave jack (577-573-966) - 12/10/2011

Question
extremeslave jack,

First, I would like to thank Lady Sharon for sharing you with all of us out here in cyberspace. It's obvious she's done a great job training your worthless slave self. Please, tell her that I have already found your pervious answers useful.

I suppose I should tell you a little bit about myself, my name is Christina, I'm 22 years old and I want to dominate men. I've been masturbating to men on their knees and in various stages of bondage/pain since I first realized how.

For the last couple of years I've been almost constantly reading and researching FLR and Femdom relationships and play, but now that I find myself on the cusp of making my fantasies a reality I'm suddenly terrified and self conscious.

This is uncharted territory for me. I don't think I've ever been self conscious before, certainly not about my sex life. I've brought toys into vanilla sex and I nearly always take control anyway but there's something about labeling the encounter BDSM that changes everything for me.

I worry about being too humiliating, not humiliating enough, tugging his balls too hard or not hard enough, should I let him lick my pussy kneeling in front of me (how I've always liked it) or must I sit on his face to ensure he knows his place?

I know I shouldn't be worried. What happens or doesn't happen is entirely up to me but I also want to make the experience enjoyable for my sub.

And that brings me back to asking for some advice from a slave. Do you have any advice for new Domme? How do I get over worrying about my sub's satisfaction?

Answer
Respected Domina Christina
Thank you very much for your kind words to my Great Owner, the Respected Lady Sharon.  
i am honored that you found some of my answers useful. My only reason to exist is to serve.
Lady Sharon's orders in this regard have always been crystal-clear: Avail your entire worthless and pathetic self to members of our great community without any limit.
As you know, Lady has full access to my records. She went through your question in detail. Your kind words have impressed Her, so She ordered me to contact you immediately to give you Her direct e-mail.

It is: strictornurse@yahoo.com

Please contact Her at your earliest convenience as She found you a genuine Domina-to-be, worth her personal attention and direct exchange of ideas, in full privacy.
Please write Her directly. Lady will be an outstanding asset to advance your promising career.
Waiting for further orders from Her, i remain in your disposal.

under your feet
extremeslavejack