Expert: awhitecloud - 2/18/2011

Question
Hello awhitecloud. Thank you for taking the time to answer my question.

I have always been into the BDSM lifestyle. I was the 'weird' kid who enjoyed being tied up, touched by other kids, and in playing house, liked to pretend I was both naked and bound, being sold. All before turning 10, mind.

At nearly 19, I am a virgin. I have never even had a boyfriend, but whether only sometimes or 24/7 submission, I am sure of what I want. I know I should wait a few more years to begin in this lifestyle, but even then I would not know how to begin save meeting a stranger on alt com.
So my questions are as follows: do you think I am too young to know what I want? Is my virginity a negative or positive factor in this? When would be the ideal time to pursue this, and how should I do it? How can I prepare myself now? Obvioisly these may be hard to answer not knowing me personally, but i am desperate for guidance.

Answer
I tried to answer this question this last week but got an error message.  So I am trying to do this again I hope that it works.

I know you are young and all and I do not think that matters much if you are careful and think befor you act.


I do not think it is good or bad that you are a virgin, it is just a fact of life and being young.  I know that many would jump to have you, but please keep learning and growing in the lifestyle and take it slow. In time you will find the right person to have that relationship with.

Get involved in munches and meeting others where you can ask questions and try things and make it all become a learning and growing time.

Joing www.fetlife.com it is much better as far as information and all.  Look me up when you get there I have the same name as here.  There are a lot of groups you can join and really get to learn so much with others. I hope to see you soon there.

Awhitecloud