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hello i have a question and hope you can help me answer this as i am at a lost.  I have been in some scenes of late and well i can get a real nice red bottom and nice marks from canes and hand marks but then with in a couple of hours they are gone and these are not light sessions either do you think you have any advice or comments on this aspect of how or why i can not retain a mark?

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well maybe your body has grown a custom to that since of play and you need to step it up and well work to have a bruise and then you would have something more longer lasting?

Or you could add maybe a sand paper paddle to the end of the session for just a few swats, they leave a lasting impression?

thanks for the question, as I do know how important longer lasting marks can be.

Best of luck I hope it helps some,

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

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I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

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Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

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I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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