Expert: awhitecloud - 4/30/2011

Question
QUESTION: Hey there dear
i am a female slave who is recently 18 but i have 4 years of experience in BDSM but now i need real help, Master feels that i am kinda boring and dunno how to serve Him and He told me that He feels that i am a slave who likes to be pleased only and does not please her Master, so i need more than 10 ideas how to please and serve my Master and how to surprise Him with all big and little things that can be done, plz help me in every way possible, i really need it :(

P.S: My Master is 46 years old

ANSWER: okay I am not sure if your R/time or how much time you spend together. But make sure his drink is always filled.  Shower and become clean just be fore he arrives or you see him.

Kneel and ask him what it is that he wishes. Being that you have been together this long you should know what he likes as well how he likes things done, so just do them before he ask or tells you to do them.

Bathe him wash him lay out his clothing, help him or just dress him, shoes shocks everything. meet his needs and not in a silly manner, but being open and honest with him at all times. Open the car door for him walk two steps behind him when your our unless he tells you other wise.

Make sure after play time that you clean the toys and put them away, do not wait for him to do it.  Carry things for him and start to do everything before he needs help or might even need it.  It might not be a need but try to just do things for him and to do what ever to make his life easier.

If he is your Master he should be training you and teaching you to Serve him and there should never be a point of him becoming board she should always be seeing and trying new things with you.  I personally see if that if he is board he is not doing his job to add spice and to make it fun as well entertaining.

I hope this has helped some and that you find your direction with your Master in the journey that is before you both.

Sorry for my delay I had to think this one over and been working on my blackberry as I am out of town.

Thank you for the question, and I do wish the best.

awhitecloud






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QUESTION: dear whitecloud
i am terribly sorry to tell u this (which can be disappointing)
1st of all, i am not a 24/7 live-in slave but, Master controls my whole life and since exams are one month away i get to see Him once or twice a month.

2nd of all, i am not needy, it's just that i am reactive and i don't have enough creativity to do something new more than what i am told to do

3. i am so submissive and i do absolutely everything He orders me to do and i don't do anything without a permission

4. i rub His feet, i massage Him, i lick His body, i make myself very tempting and accessible even the way i kneel

5. we never get out, we always stay at His place

6. i am always clean for Him

7. i already clean around when He's away and make everything tidy

8. i do all what you mentioned, i dunno what else to do but still, he needs new things, new ideas, surprises that i do without being ordered to.

i am really really sorry to bother you but i really need help
would u please help me?
touty

Answer
touty,

Okay why not try to ask for some play time with him?  Bring some feathers and different things and put them in a large bag, have him blind fold you and you try to figure out what they are?  Even ask him if he would add some unknown items to the bag for a bit more fun?  You can make a trip to a dollar store and gather a lot of things and not have it coast a lot of money.

maybe you need to ask to go out someplace or a drive with no top on for something fun?  Maybe to even have dinner and to sit on the seat with no panties on and his foot in your crotch?

If he will allow you to or even have him join as well there is a free site www.fetlife.com that you might be able to join some groups and well learn other ways to have some added fun?

Maybe you need to just not be so good all the time and see what happens, that might be fun for him in some way? Just an idea, you know him best on that front. :-)

I hope that this has helped you even a little if I am way off base I am sorry write me back and let me know look me up on fetlife, I am awhitecloud in WA there.  I will be happy to keep trying.

thank you

awhitecloud