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My master used to be very strict and had a temper. but for the past couple months he's been very relaxed with me. i never get punished anymore. the only time he punishes me is if i do anything with another guy but i don't like to betray his trust like that. I'm a very big pain lover so this is a problem for me. do you have any advice for me to get him back to the master he used to be?

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The obvious answer is communication. Why can't you tell him what you just told me? You and your master know your relationship better than anyone else.
 Sorry I can't help more, but nothing is more effective than communication. Just tell him you need more discipline and to be punished for more minor short-comings.  

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