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I have been blessed with a new son in recent month and he tries very hard to please Mommy, but needs much discipline and training. He is very anal, and makes begs for Mommy to humiliate and punish him...Please give me your advise for day long...morning till bedtime tasks and rules....warmest regards, Mommy V

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Hmmmm....


You're waayyyyy outside my area of competence.  I live in the world of Leather Master/slave relationships and I have a rather limited imagination.  I don't punish my slave for minor things and major things will cause her release.   In the world that I live in, "brattiness" is a barrier to acceptance as a slave, since Leather slaves are responsible for serving and obeying their Master.  You can do brattiness as Daddy/boy-boi or Mommy/boy -- but your in area in which I have no experience.

I did a quick Google search on "domestic discipline bdsm" and there is a lot of stuff listed.  I'd suggest that you try that.  In addition, you can search on "slave rules".

For another very rich source of suggestions, join www.Fetlife.com -- it's free.  There are many Fetlife groups for which a question like this will get you dozens of answers.

Sorry that I can't be of more help,

Bob

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Master/slave theory and practice, using protocols to make your world special, communication glitches within the M/s framework, serious problem solving in an M/s relationship, fire play.

Experience

Author of: Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice; Protocol Handbook for the Female slave (The gender-free version is titled: Protocol Handbook for the Leather slave. They are essentially the same.) M/s Relations: Communications 401 - the Advanced Course; M/s Relations: Solutions 402 -- Living in Harmony There are other books, but only these are relevant to this category. ... and a few others. By the way, my slave is on the far left, and my Owner is in the middle. We've been together over six years, and have lived as a Leather Family since June, 2006.

Organizations
MAsT, NLA-I

Publications
See my website: www.RubelPresents.com and go to the "publications" tab.

Education/Credentials
PhD, Urban Education Policy Studies with a minor in criminology, U of Wisconsin, Madison. Have presented over 30 times in 2007 and 2008 at major weekend Leather and BDSM conferences. These are all listed on my website, www.RubelPresents.com along with all my presentation topics.

Awards and Honors
Pantheon of Leather Community Choice - Man, 2008

Past/Present Clients
I am currently mentoring two people, listed on my FetLife profile of Dr_Bob. I particularly enjoy mentoring FemDommes -- they often listen better. I have successfully transformed a select number of people. It's not a question of what I offer, it's a question of what you bring to the table.

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