Expert: Master Shadow - 1/30/2012

Question
hi master shadow i have recently recieved a slave as a gift he is 16 and im 36 he is perfec however he has been awfully treated by his previous master beatened and starved and raped he is extremely obedient and is always ready to serve me in bed but i really like to find away to approach him without planting more fear in him first is my fear in its place and if yes what should i do he is realy a good slave but i want to be a good master to thanks for ur time

Answer
I would start by gaining his trust. Long talks without judgement would seem in order. Find out as much as You can about him, his likes, wants, desires for the future, his hopes and dreams. If he has been abused, You will need to show a lot of love, patience and kindness. See to his needs. Treat him with kindness, and have long discussions with him. Touch, gentle and caring is important. Show him You care. Buy him little gifts that You know he will enjoy.

Abuse victims often have poor self esteem, and self image. You need to rebuild this image, make him proud of himself. Compliment him often, even on small things. Help him to regain what he has lost in his last relationship. Make him proud of himself and his accomplishments, and he will be proud in his collar as well. Here, You have the chance to repair the damage over time. Do this, and he will serve from the heart, out of pride, not fear.

Do not punish him if it can be avoided, but rather talk to him, and explain how or why he should do things to please You. Tell him how much You love him, and how proud You are to own him. Do this, and You will have a slave whom You can be proud of, love, and cherish. Remember, to own a slave is to be responsible for the health, happiness and well being of another human being. Guide him gently, with love, and that love will be returned to You in many ways.


SINcerely in Leather,
Master Shadow.