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I'm just curious what should happen if a slave walks out on a master upon a request.

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Daniel --

I'm not sure in your question if it is the Master requesting that the slave leaves, or the slave requests to leave.  In either case, the relationship has effectively ended.

As with any relationship, break-ups are difficult.  It can be even more so in a Master/slave relationship given the intensity and nature of the dynamic.  A released slave can feel untethered - even if walking was the slave's decision.  And even though the Master has been "in charge," the loss of a slave (again regardless of whose decision) can be a difficult process.

Hopefully, both Master and slave learn from the experience -- about who they are, what they need in a relationship, and how to better position themselves for success in the future.

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Questions related to power-based relationships in which decision-making authority is intentionally and consensually transferred -- and the resulting imbalance celebrated. I am able to assist those trying to understand where they fit in, and those seeking to structure and thrive in a power based relationships. Specific topics I am able to discuss include: setting and achieving personal and relationship goals, responsible Mastery, the use of protocols and rituals, communication techniques, and conflict resolution. In addition, I am knowledgable and experienced in polyamory, long-distance relationships, bisexuality and a variety of kinky activities ranging from mind games to sadistic play.

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I have chosen to have a power-based structure in my relationships over the past 18 years. This has included a 16-year M/s relationship, several shorter term D/s relationships and various play partners. I am an active participant in various online forums and seek to provide support and advice to those interested in the Lifestyle.

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I do not hold any credentials specific to BDSM, relying instead on knowledge gained from life experiences, reading and conversing with others in the Lifestyle.

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