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My master wants to use knives and wax in our play I don't know what to say cause I don't want to be punished

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More info would be nice, to start, but I am getting the idea that you aren't overly fond of this idea. He is the first person to speak with on this. Is it a hard limit? Do you understand how the knife will be used in this type of play? Do you trust your Master? All of these come into play in this so short of a post. *Smiles* There are a few things to know. First, usually this type of knife play doesn't involve cutting, it is strictly used to remove the wax, and not much else, unless there's an added fear kick involved. Of course, part of this also includes your Master's skill with a knife.Mainly though, your recourse should be to speak with Him, and every slave/sub/bottom should be able to speak openly about things of this nature without fear of reprisal for doing so. Explain to Him why this freaks you out, or scares you, and see what can be worked out.

Hope this helps.

SINcerely in Leather,
Shadow.

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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

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35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

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Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon. Founder of Southern Indiana Consensual Kink (S.I.C.K.)

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Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

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Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

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