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Hi there.

I'm looking to find myself a master. I haven't had a master before, my long term ex boyfriend was quite dominant, but that's as close as I've had. I've spent a lot of time researching M/s and D/s relationships, I'm just wondered if you have any tips or advice? Or any sites you can recommend for research?

As I am quite new to the BDSM world, should I try and find an experienced master or someone who is also new tho this world?

Thank you for your time, and I hope to hear from you soon.

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Hello,

I would say go to www.fetlife.com and join it and look for others in your area and attend munches and get to know like minded people.  That will be the best way to find a Dom.  You can find groups of things your interested in and well ask questions so that you can grow and learn more.

I hope this has helped you in some way.

Thank you for your question.

awhitecloud

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

Experience

I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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