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I am a recently married man and my wife and I are in a wife led marriage. I am submissive to my wife and love to submit to her authority and discipline. My wife and I had agreed before marrying that my orgasms would be controlled by her and we are on the honor system for the past few months. But my wife now wants me to wear a chastity belt at least during the day when she is away from me. I want to know is it possible to wear a chastity belt for really long periods? I have read accounts on blogs and forums where some men have reported to have worn the belt for months at a time with the belt coming off only for an occasional cleaning. One of the reasons why my wife wants me to be belted is because she wants to increase the time between my orgasms and I am already finding it difficult to stop myself from masturbating. She thinks the chastity belt will help me control my urges since I won't be able to stimulate myself once locked in the belt.

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Freerkhan,

Yes it is possible to wear it for weeks, months, and even yrs.. Some men have actually had it locked on for good .. The only way it would be able to come off is with a torch.

If you would like to find a good one, I would suggest pretty much each of these on the web page I am going to share.

http://www.extremerestraints.com/chastity-devices_26/

I do hope your wife will find something she will enjoy putting on you..

Good Luck

Lady Aryana

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Fem Dom relationships, Male Dom/fem slave, Master/slave relationships M/f, F/f, Long Distance relationships, Leather community, Victorian Lifestyle, BDSM play, Community support, Full time slavery and submission *living together, and how to adjust, protocols, and so forth. Web pages and site for help with finding others in your area. HOH or DD relationships. D/s has always been a part of me I am still active in looking for a relationship either D/s or Mistress/slave, or simply learning more in order to help others. I am always reading, either on the net or books.

Experience

I have been in long distance relationship that were D/s relationships. I have owned both male and female slaves/submissive, I have been both a real time slave, submissive, and submissive wife. I am not in a committed relationship at the moment. I just moved to Indina with in the last year. I can be found on Fetlife.com as LadyAryana. I am not collared, and I still am always on the look for others to play with around me. Slowing I am returning to being active in the community here in Indiana. In the past I have been active in the BDSM community and a DM for play parties. I have been active for the last 20+ yrs in BDSM in one way or another

Organizations
I was active in the GA community when I lived there. I am semi active in Indiana since moving here, I attend munches and demo's / play parties GRALE, Belong to PEP, and other BDSM clubs over the yrs.

Publications
Egroups, Blogs, Journals, And some story writings.

Education/Credentials
Have taken work shops for different BDSM events. Attended SELF given demo's, Been a DM for play parties and private and public clubs. Attending gathering of both D/s, Spanking lifestyles. I have been active in HOH and DD relationships. I was active in the leather community while living in GA. I was trained Victorian and and Gorean, I understand that training varies in each relationship so you adjust to what it is you do for the relationship you are in. I have trained both Master's and Mistress' along with slaves in the yrs I have been in BDSM.

Past/Present Clients
Master, slave, submissive, Tops, and Bottoms. Along with those who simply wanted to learn how to be kinky in the bedroom

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