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I am very new to this lifestyle. After meeting a man who is in this lifestyle and discussing in length being a sub to him. I commited. However it has not been what we discussed. I dont want to be with other people and i feel very bad. I do i tell him i want to leave . This is a part time thing

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Just as you stated.  You just tell him the relationship is not what you want and you think it is best to part ways and move on. It does not need to be a big thing, it happens and relationships come and go from time to time as we grow and develop in our own ways. Just stand your ground and move on to what it is that your looking for.

Thank you for the question and I hope that you find what your looking for. Be safe and take your time, so you can learn and grow.

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

Experience

I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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