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I am 26 and married. I am extremely interested in this life style. But my husband is a prude and I need more. I honestly Don't know what to do. Hoping you can help me.

Answer
Work at introducing it slowly into your relationship and start with communication. A Submissive's Initiative has several good articles about how to introduce BDSM into a vanilla relationship. Check them out. You might also find their checklist helpful when you start talking with your husband.

http://asibdsm.com/negotiating-247-bdsm-relationship/
http://asibdsm.com/bdsm-bring-life-vanilla-marriage/
http://asibdsm.com/from-vanilla-to-kink/
http://asibdsm.com/ten-tips-for-bringing-bdsm-into-your-bedroom/
http://asibdsm.com/how-to-do-i-tell-my-partner-im-interested-in-bdsm/

Checklist: http://asibdsm.com/product/bdsm-checklist-download-free/

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Jessica Cocker

Expertise

BDSM lifestyle, Dom/sub relationship, daddy/little girl relationships, BDSM theory and practice with real life applications, sadism and masochism, bondage application with some rope/shibari experience, BDSM toy information, BDSM and bondage safety, I can answer questions regarding M/s based on research, but I have no experience in a M/s dynamic.

Experience

7+ years exploring the lifestyle, 1+ years in 24/7 DD/lg relationship, 1+ year at A Submissive's Initiative

Organizations
Founder/CEO of A Submissive's Initiave, Founder/CEO of A Dominant's Initiative, Founder/CEO of The Safe Submissive

Publications
www.asibdsm.com

Education/Credentials
Self education, along with educational research for A Submissive's Initiative. 3 years into my Bachelors in Early Childhood Education, with experience working in the field.

Past/Present Clients
Currently guiding my Daddy through exploration of his DD side, as well as providing mentoring to several people through A Submissive's Initiative and providing supporting through A Dominant's Initiative and The Safe Submissive

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