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What hurts more crop or flogger and what is a cat tail and this girl asked me what is your after care, explain?

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A crop does not have to hurt any more then a flogged, both can hurt or both can be sensual, depending on how they are used. And a cat is normally a cat of nine tails. Which means it is like a floger with only nine tails on it.

As to after care, it is when you tend to your Sub, make sure they are okay hold them close, give them a drink, tend to any marks there maybe. If they are out of sub space or not and allow them time to get back into the real world after your play time. For many this is very important and a much needed time.

I hope this has helped you some and thanks for asking the Questions.

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

Experience

I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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