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Madame Rax.

 Thank you for taking precious time out of your busy schedule to read and answer my question. i am a 62 yr old, GWM living in New Mexico. i was an owned slave many years ago when i was younger and my life was a great pleasure then. But i have since moved on and grown older, thou i look back on that time in my life as the happiest times i can remember. But now i am older and have had difficulties in finding anyone, Male/Female/Couple Dominants who are willing to accept an older and experienced slave such as myself. i guess my question is to you Ma'am. Am i past my prime and should stop searching for a permenant position? Thank you.

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lukas.

There is absolutely no reason to stop searching for a permanent position. I am personally appreciative of older, more experienced slaves, and I know I am not the only Dominant who does. Do not be afraid to be proud of your age and experience. Make it clear that you are potentially better than other younger slaves because you do not have any of the fickleness, ridiculous mood swings, or anything like that. Be adamant that you are SERIOUS about your life decisions and that you'd like to establish something wonderful with anyone who can appreciate your station in life. Highlight your pros and attempt to reveal your cons, but with the intention of changing those when necessary.

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Expertise

I am open and willing to answer any questions involving BDSM that do not specifically concern illegal acts involving children or non-consensual assault against an unwilling party.

Experience

I have had BDSM experience in a professional capacity since 2005. As far as personal, non-professional experience, I have always taken the lead in relationships, friendships, and other situational interactions. I prefer to "wear the pants" so to speak. However, this is not to say I wear the physical pants: I am mostly seen wearing skirts.

Organizations
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Publications
Excitedly, this will be my first foray into professional writing about BDSM, however my vanilla writings have appeared in several publications online. I am the former main web editor of a very popular DIY website, writing articles about electronics, repurposing, and sustainability.

Education/Credentials
I have participated in many educational workshops held by Pro-Dommes. I have also hosted a few workshops involving BDSM issues. I have done extensive research on D/s power dynamics and BDSM. As far as education, however, professional sessions and interactions with clients have provided most of my experience.

Past/Present Clients
I have a multitude of both. I specialize in clients with physical handicaps, rare kinks, edge play, LGBT lifestyles, and other underrepresented or marginalized groups.

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