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|Comment||Thank you for your advice! About what my relationship is to be... I agree verily that it is something that she and I must figure out. I am not sure at the moment if we will be a full time M/s couple or just a couple who like do some crazy things. Your reply helps me comfirm that it is something much thought must be put into and I suspect this relationship will evolve into something in between, though that may not be right. It is something I have been pondering quite a bit. As for the first scene ideas, what you suggest coincides in a way with an idea I found elsewhere. Attempting to script it would be bad as you say, I think I shall set up a scenario where she will be in the bathroom or outside and she will see a bag and a note. the note says not to enter the next room unless she is wearing only what is within the bag. which of course contains her collar, wrist cuffs, blindfold etc etc. She must enter the next room blindfolded and not entirely sure about what will happen to her. I think this will set the right mood for experiencing something new. Anyways, I am grateful for your reply to my question and if I ever have more to ask, I hope you will be able to answer again.|
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