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Hello sir,

here is my question me and my master have been struggling seens we have been back home from university because we are living with our parents at this moment. I just want to know how can we life a bdsm lifestyle with out freaking everyone out. We have no privacy and I just really miss allot of the freedom we had before and it's driving me insane.

Note: there is not chance that we can just come out with it.

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maybe you need a weekend just in a hotel so that you can have what you need.  You know you can have a lot of it in joking manners with others around but you both know what he is doing.  He can grab your hair and pull your head back and kiss you, others would not think that so strange, but trust me it can put shivers to your core.

You just need to get a little creative, stop freaking out and driving yourself nuts...just look at it and say how can I have this?  Then make your brain work, trust me if you bring him in and use his brain, they can find good ways to give you what you need.

Good luck, and always remember this is just a time in life that will pass and then you can have it all back.

thank you for the question,

awhitecloud

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

Experience

I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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