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Hello I am looking for a wedding cake topper for Mine and my subs wedding.  I am looking for a topper that has the Male holding the leash while the female is in the kneeling position with collar and leash attached.  If you may know of any websites or places I might find such items it would be very helpful if you could post them. I wish to make this a very special event for us just as our collaring ceremony was very memorable.  I do thank you for your time and wish you well.

Sir Lars

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http://www.topthatcards.co.uk/ourshop/prod_2210162-Saucy-Hen-Night-Cake-Topper-1 is closest that I could find to your specific request. I also found this image, but I could not find a vendor from which you could buy this cake topper: http://pinterest.com/pin/524810162796706791/.

If you can find a vendor that does specific requests, you may want to show them these photos and see if they can make a custom cake topper for you. This company says they will honor a request for any lifestyle: http://www.weddingstar.com/wedding-cake-toppers/all.

Let Me know if any work out, so I may use the information in the future.
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I am open and willing to answer any questions involving BDSM that do not specifically concern illegal acts involving children or non-consensual assault against an unwilling party.

Experience

I have had BDSM experience in a professional capacity since 2005. As far as personal, non-professional experience, I have always taken the lead in relationships, friendships, and other situational interactions. I prefer to "wear the pants" so to speak. However, this is not to say I wear the physical pants: I am mostly seen wearing skirts.

Organizations
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Publications
Excitedly, this will be my first foray into professional writing about BDSM, however my vanilla writings have appeared in several publications online. I am the former main web editor of a very popular DIY website, writing articles about electronics, repurposing, and sustainability.

Education/Credentials
I have participated in many educational workshops held by Pro-Dommes. I have also hosted a few workshops involving BDSM issues. I have done extensive research on D/s power dynamics and BDSM. As far as education, however, professional sessions and interactions with clients have provided most of my experience.

Past/Present Clients
I have a multitude of both. I specialize in clients with physical handicaps, rare kinks, edge play, LGBT lifestyles, and other underrepresented or marginalized groups.

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