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Hi. I'm currently in a long distance relationship with a trans ftm. Lately we have been sending each other letters.. and I was wondering if you could help me figure out what kind of gift to send them! I have been looking online at things that I know they would like.. I'm just not sure what to get. My partner loves anything bondage, bloody, gothic, black, and surprisingly enough.. they also love little cute things like plushies and candies. Right now I'm trying to find something cute and kinky, cute and creepy. If that makes sense. They're the type of person who will buy a pink pocket knife just because it's pink. (: I also considered smoking accessories, clothing, and possibly jewelry. Help?? I hope this question isn't too silly. I'm sure you get a bunch of much more serious, more important topics. Hope to hear from you soon. xo

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I cant really say what you could get, although I can offer you a few sites where you might be able to find something that will match what you are looking for..

You need to remember when giving something that though it is for the other person, it also is a part of you.. So something you feel a connection with as well.

http://whipschainsducttape.storenvy.com/products

http://www.extremerestraints.com/home.html

http://www.beautifullybound.com.au/

http://www.adameve.com/sexy-extras/novelties-fun-stuff-ch-993.aspx

You can also check out HotTopic or Spencers.. You should be able to find jewelry there along with smoking accessories..

And there is never a silly question, just silly people.. :) and I do not think you are either ;)

Good luck and hope you are able to find something for him :)

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Fem Dom relationships, Male Dom/fem slave, Master/slave relationships M/f, F/f, Long Distance relationships, Leather community, Victorian Lifestyle, BDSM play, Community support, Full time slavery and submission *living together, and how to adjust, protocols, and so forth. Web pages and site for help with finding others in your area. HOH or DD relationships. D/s has always been a part of me I am still active in looking for a relationship either D/s or Mistress/slave, or simply learning more in order to help others. I am always reading, either on the net or books.

Experience

I have been in long distance relationship that were D/s relationships. I have owned both male and female slaves/submissive, I have been both a real time slave, submissive, and submissive wife. I am not in a committed relationship at the moment. I just moved to Indina with in the last year. I can be found on Fetlife.com as LadyAryana. I am not collared, and I still am always on the look for others to play with around me. Slowing I am returning to being active in the community here in Indiana. In the past I have been active in the BDSM community and a DM for play parties. I have been active for the last 20+ yrs in BDSM in one way or another

Organizations
I was active in the GA community when I lived there. I am semi active in Indiana since moving here, I attend munches and demo's / play parties GRALE, Belong to PEP, and other BDSM clubs over the yrs.

Publications
Egroups, Blogs, Journals, And some story writings.

Education/Credentials
Have taken work shops for different BDSM events. Attended SELF given demo's, Been a DM for play parties and private and public clubs. Attending gathering of both D/s, Spanking lifestyles. I have been active in HOH and DD relationships. I was active in the leather community while living in GA. I was trained Victorian and and Gorean, I understand that training varies in each relationship so you adjust to what it is you do for the relationship you are in. I have trained both Master's and Mistress' along with slaves in the yrs I have been in BDSM.

Past/Present Clients
Master, slave, submissive, Tops, and Bottoms. Along with those who simply wanted to learn how to be kinky in the bedroom

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