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My bf wants to get experience as a Dom. My assignment is to get the info he requires. We are both new to the lifestyle, and having a few difficulties with the learning process. He was wondering if it was possible to find a Dom to learn from. And if so, where does he start?

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I would have to say that the best way is to meet some real people that are in the lifestyle, make some like mInded friends that will help you to both learn and grow. Find a munch group in your area and start attending. Join some on line groups and ask questions. He iS going to have to do his own work and put some effort into this, it is not something you can do for him.

Go to www.fetlife.com and both of you join it is free. You can search for others, you can also Join groups there. You can look up and find Munches in your area so you can begin your way. The life style is so big and you have so many options so please do not rush, take your time and be safe as well.

Best of luck to you both, and always be safe and careful.

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

Experience

I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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