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David Lynton wrote at 2014-11-30 01:16:56
This was such a good article on starting out as a sub , and wish id read this before I started as a slave at the ripe age of 52 .. I remember the anticipation for the week leading up to our first meeting , I was nervous to say the least !

I had to arrive on time , not early not late ..so I practised the run repeatedly .Id been requested to let myself in to the playroom and undress within 20 seconds from tee shirt, dark colour and shorts , no underwear down to just my boots .All folded and neatly placed away . then bow on the mat and with head down await Master to enter the playroom . I can only say despite my nerves , that night blew my mind , oh and nipples after having them clamped for the first time !

I wish id done it earlier in life , but my time with Master was the most erotic , and fullfilling sexually , and mentally , of my life . The only draw back is not having a Master now and finding vanilla sex a bit boring after the thrill of never knowing when or what I would be expected to do . Im now 55 and still looking for another Master .  


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I will answer questions related to long term Master/slave relationships.

Experience

We have been married since 2007, and I collared her on November 1, 2008. My slave and I are married, monogamous, and committed to each other. My relationship with my slave is based on mutual love, respect, and frankly fun. Race Bannon has said "if you are not having fun then you are doing it wrong." We are having lots of fun so we must be doing something right! My slave is an intelligent (BS in Mathematics actually), and strong women who chooses to put her power into my service and, perhaps seemingly paradoxically as she is my submissive, my equal. She is my slave, my wife, my best friend, and my only lover. I respect her for her ability to submit and truly believe that it takes more strength to submit then to dominate. She follows, but not blindly.

Organizations
Masters and Slaves Together - Marysville (Washington) (founding director) MAsT International - Assistant Northwest Regional Representative 2015, Regional Representtive 2016 BDSM Writers Workshop (April 2016) http://bdsmwriterscon.com/

Publications
My essays are on Fetlife under BrianR (https://fetlife.com/users/9389/posts)

Education/Credentials
Engineer (however this probably should be under the category "barriers your slave has overcome")

Awards and Honors
With my lovely slave we were Northwest Master and slave 2013

Past/Present Clients
With my slave I have presented at national and international events since 2013. While we enjoy presenting at national events, we find more satisfaction in talking with small groups from Boise ID to Singapore and Hong Kong. Our list of classes is available at

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