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I am single and wish to be submissive to a dominant non pro woman one who enjoys thinking how my humiliation could amuse her is there such a woman like this who wants a pet to scold but not to bad to the point that one will feel hurt I guess what I am asking is if there is a woman who like to administer bdsm and love him for his submissiveness for ever after.

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Almost all of My personal relationships have had some element of BDSM in them, with Me as the D, and them as the s. Of course We are out there, those of us who appreciate the submissive partner. I would not recommend getting into a relationship with a Dominant without first visiting a professional (and a caring, good professional), otherwise you may enter into a relationship vacuum where you are wondering if certain behaviors are too extreme, too boring, etc. Before you settle on a Dominant, you should first consider making sure you have experienced a good amount of BDSM play, sessioning, etc. Otherwise you will be the BDSM equivalent of an awkward virgin, which may appeal to some, but not most.

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Expertise

I am open and willing to answer any questions involving BDSM that do not specifically concern illegal acts involving children or non-consensual assault against an unwilling party.

Experience

I have had BDSM experience in a professional capacity since 2005. As far as personal, non-professional experience, I have always taken the lead in relationships, friendships, and other situational interactions. I prefer to "wear the pants" so to speak. However, this is not to say I wear the physical pants: I am mostly seen wearing skirts.

Organizations
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Publications
Excitedly, this will be my first foray into professional writing about BDSM, however my vanilla writings have appeared in several publications online. I am the former main web editor of a very popular DIY website, writing articles about electronics, repurposing, and sustainability.

Education/Credentials
I have participated in many educational workshops held by Pro-Dommes. I have also hosted a few workshops involving BDSM issues. I have done extensive research on D/s power dynamics and BDSM. As far as education, however, professional sessions and interactions with clients have provided most of my experience.

Past/Present Clients
I have a multitude of both. I specialize in clients with physical handicaps, rare kinks, edge play, LGBT lifestyles, and other underrepresented or marginalized groups.

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