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Hallo
i am single and I live in Italy right now. Many years ago (I am 43 now) I met a guy who asked me, along the road, if he could lick my feet. From there, we started a game which lasted 9 months, till I had to leave from that city. It was my only experience in dominating someone, and it was fun and also a bit anxious for me - unsure I could disappoint him, that I could not be able to express that part of me (but there was), scared to exceed as well as scared to be just unable...
Now, a man from another city contacted me through the facebook (because I wrote something he read, correctly, as "dominant"..) and asked me to be my slave, financially (which I never did and actually do not need, so I must say it is kind of difficult to manage for me) and virtually. I started a slow game a few days ago but I am so unsure. I would need a mentor I suppose, and someone who can help me someway to discuss issues.... Is there anything I can read or anyone to talk with? thank you!
Georgia

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Sorry I did not get this,

I am not much into the whole Financially Dom thing but I know there are alot who are. I would suggest you look at tumblr https://www.tumblr.com/search/financial+domination and see if you can contact any of those who run a page on it all. You can also go to fetlife and see if anyone knows someone you can talk to there. Sorry I could not be of more help, but I am not one who knows about it. Good Luck

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Fem Dom relationships, Male Dom/fem slave, Master/slave relationships M/f, F/f, Long Distance relationships, Leather community, Victorian Lifestyle, BDSM play, Community support, Full time slavery and submission *living together, and how to adjust, protocols, and so forth. Web pages and site for help with finding others in your area. HOH or DD relationships. D/s has always been a part of me I am still active in looking for a relationship either D/s or Mistress/slave, or simply learning more in order to help others. I am always reading, either on the net or books.

Experience

I have been in long distance relationship that were D/s relationships. I have owned both male and female slaves/submissive, I have been both a real time slave, submissive, and submissive wife. I am not in a committed relationship at the moment. I just moved to Indina with in the last year. I can be found on Fetlife.com as LadyAryana. I am not collared, and I still am always on the look for others to play with around me. Slowing I am returning to being active in the community here in Indiana. In the past I have been active in the BDSM community and a DM for play parties. I have been active for the last 20+ yrs in BDSM in one way or another

Organizations
I was active in the GA community when I lived there. I am semi active in Indiana since moving here, I attend munches and demo's / play parties GRALE, Belong to PEP, and other BDSM clubs over the yrs.

Publications
Egroups, Blogs, Journals, And some story writings.

Education/Credentials
Have taken work shops for different BDSM events. Attended SELF given demo's, Been a DM for play parties and private and public clubs. Attending gathering of both D/s, Spanking lifestyles. I have been active in HOH and DD relationships. I was active in the leather community while living in GA. I was trained Victorian and and Gorean, I understand that training varies in each relationship so you adjust to what it is you do for the relationship you are in. I have trained both Master's and Mistress' along with slaves in the yrs I have been in BDSM.

Past/Present Clients
Master, slave, submissive, Tops, and Bottoms. Along with those who simply wanted to learn how to be kinky in the bedroom

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