BDSM/Leash

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Sir has a leash that he occasionally uses with me privately. We are going to a play party next weekend and he will likely leash me. We both understand that the leash isn't to be left dangling as it is an invitation to other Doms.  Are there other unspoken protocols that we should know before he leashes me around others?

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Protocols can be unspoken, but they are not secrets. You can just ask him what are the rules he wants you to follow. That is the best approach also because you two may choose to adopt protocols that are dissimilar from what others are doing, so it is better to just ask your Dom.

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Khaos

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I can answer questions about techniques in BDSM, especially about bondage. I also have plenty of experience in the psychological aspects of it, dominance, mind control techniques, and erotic hypnosis.

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About 14 years experience as a bondage Dom, kinkster, and swinger.

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I write often for http://KhaosTheory.com and published a book about lifestyle design and sexual dominance.

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I have been studying psychology, neurosciences, and the applied arts of BDSM for these 14 years I have been in it. Most of it is of very practical application and tested in the field. There are no diplomas on the wall, but consequently I am not bound by the limits and constraints of any medical or educational occupation.

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