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I am new to D/s and in a relationship with a Dom for about 2 months now. He listens to me, encourages my research, answers my questions but expects what he expects.  I respect him and feel good about what I am learning and feel being a sub is what makes me happy- makes me feel valued.  

I want to be able to speak with other subs...  my friends are not into this lifestyle and only my closest friends are aware of the dynamics of my relationship.  BUT, I am not sure how to find other subs in the area.  I search sites like yours for input and guidance and Sir listens to what I perceive I learned and verifies what he agrees with and what he sees differently.  He has agreed that I can reach out and try to connect with other subs, but has not given guidance on how.  Can you help?

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I sent this before but might not have gone through.

I would try FETLIFE.com.  It's free .. Join the site and search groups and events near you. Most groups have special interest groups for submissives. There are so online support lists on the site where you can ask questions and read others thoughts on various topic.

Best of luck

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I am available to answer questions pertaining to the Master slave dynamic. The slaves journey into submission, mentorship, service,leather lifestyle, household management, and training. My life's focus is assisting individuals to realized their fullest potential through self awareness.

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I am a 51 year old female slave who has been part of the BDSM/M/s lifestyle since 1983. I have had the distinct privilege of sharing my perspective on the M/s dynamic throughout the US and Canada. I am the owner and producer of ABR Events an authority based relationship organization that provides quality education concerning power dynamic relationships of all kinds, including that of M/s. It is also a honor and privilege to be owned property for the past 13 years. I bring to the table no only my concepts on mastery and slavery but also real time experience.

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TES MAST ROCHESTER NY (Director) MAsT national ABR Events ( Owner/producer)

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Slave quarters: "The mind body spirit of consensual slavery" Art of slavery Tryscilian society

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Aside from learning from lifes experiences i have a BA in psychology and a masters in socialogy. i have studied gender and human sexuality in an ever changing world.

Awards and Honors
Southeast slave 2006 International slave 2006

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Masters and slaves

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