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pixie wrote at 2015-02-09 15:24:55
hi.. sorry but.. i got.. really upset reading your reply to her.

she is not a slave. not like you. she said she has a DADDY. meaning she is a baby girl. the dynamic of a babygirl and a slave are... like night and day. She had EVER right to question the lack of aftercare. What she should not have done is ask a slave for their opinion of the matter since your dynamic is nowhere near hers. A babygirl needs discipline but never EVER EEEEEEEEEVER the coldness a Mistress or Master offer. "coldness" is how a babygirl would read it, but how you would experience it as ultimate love - the dominants strict control of you. Babygirls need that aftercare as much as a masochist needs the lash. Either her "Daddy" is not a real daddy and is actually a master and is just calling himself the wrong thing to fit in with her... or ... well. She had a right to ask.

I have been a babygirl in a committed relationship for 17 years, and before that i tried subbing and tried slaving so i have some ideas of what i am talking about. What fits one glove does not fit all.

You... might want to be a little bit more careful in understanding every relationship as "your" relationship.

Sorry if that was too blunt or... rude or.. uncool. but .. yeah. that was upsetting. sorry.  


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