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|Comment||I wanted to thank you for your advice. Although this wasn't something that took me until later on in life to figure out (I'm only 23), I brought it up to my husband today and explained in simple terms that for now I wanted him to be more take-charge in the bedroom. He actually took to it a lot better than I expected, and we tried it out for a session. He said he really enjoyed it (Normally he's very reserved and shy). Now I think he wonders if I am sure that that is what I wanted because it's new to us, but I'm reassuring him how pleasurable it was for me.|
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Questions related to power-based relationships in which decision-making authority is intentionally and consensually transferred -- and the resulting imbalance celebrated. I am able to assist those trying to understand where they fit in, and those seeking to structure and thrive in a power based relationships. Specific topics I am able to discuss include: setting and achieving personal and relationship goals, responsible Mastery, the use of protocols and rituals, communication techniques, and conflict resolution. In addition, I am knowledgable and experienced in polyamory, long-distance relationships, bisexuality and a variety of kinky activities ranging from mind games to sadistic play.
I have chosen to have a power-based structure in my relationships over the past 18 years. This has included a 16-year M/s relationship, several shorter term D/s relationships and various play partners. I am an active participant in various online forums and seek to provide support and advice to those interested in the Lifestyle.
My writings, insights and discussion contributions are available on Alt.com and FetLife.com. On both websites, my user name is BenMartin
I do not hold any credentials specific to BDSM, relying instead on knowledge gained from life experiences, reading and conversing with others in the Lifestyle.