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I am a house husband and slave to my dominant wife and we are recently married. I had written to you once before. My wife and I practice 24/7 slavery to the maximum extent possible and I am always kept naked when we are alone. I wear a chastity belt most of the time except during the night and my wife has recently told me that she would like to keep me in bondage as much as possible during the time that we are alone. She thinks leaving me free when I am doing my chores is unnecessary. She plans to attach wrist and ankle cuffs and join a chain of reasonable length to both connecting them together and then attach another chain around my waist and perhaps loop my wrist chains through it. Is it possible to wear chains like this continuously for long periods of time without causing any skin abrasions and do you have other ideas on how to keep a slave in long term bondage?

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feerkhan,

It is possible to wear, though you will need to do some improvising on a type of padding if they get uncomfortable. It is also possible to purchase long term bondage restraint kits - you can browse the web or look here: http://www.dungeondelights.com/store/product_info.php?cPath=6&products_id=23

I hope this works for you,
Madame Rax.

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I am open and willing to answer any questions involving BDSM that do not specifically concern illegal acts involving children or non-consensual assault against an unwilling party.

Experience

I have had BDSM experience in a professional capacity since 2005. As far as personal, non-professional experience, I have always taken the lead in relationships, friendships, and other situational interactions. I prefer to "wear the pants" so to speak. However, this is not to say I wear the physical pants: I am mostly seen wearing skirts.

Organizations
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Publications
Excitedly, this will be my first foray into professional writing about BDSM, however my vanilla writings have appeared in several publications online. I am the former main web editor of a very popular DIY website, writing articles about electronics, repurposing, and sustainability.

Education/Credentials
I have participated in many educational workshops held by Pro-Dommes. I have also hosted a few workshops involving BDSM issues. I have done extensive research on D/s power dynamics and BDSM. As far as education, however, professional sessions and interactions with clients have provided most of my experience.

Past/Present Clients
I have a multitude of both. I specialize in clients with physical handicaps, rare kinks, edge play, LGBT lifestyles, and other underrepresented or marginalized groups.

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