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1.I am currently in a two week old MASTER/slave iphone relationship.
I have never identified as leather
2 weeks in
My question is hard to phrase in one but here it goes. So I am really enjoying this thus far, and have talked about limits, our relationship/thing has been a great experience with new things that I would have never thought would bring me satisfaction(as a slave) How can I make sure to continue to please my MASTER/OWNER?

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Hi, Steven,

You'll want to read a few books: Real Service by Raven Kaldera and my book, Protocols for the Leather slave (Rubel).  You might also go for "Slavecraft" by Guy Baldwin -- its the hardest of the three to read -- very full of philosophy.

For starters, you'll need to know what your Mater wants and how he wants it done.  Then you do it.  M/s is about service and obedience.

I'm here for you if you have other questions.

Bob

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Robert Rubel (Dr. Bob)

Expertise

Anything related to BDSM or Master/slave relationships or activities.

Experience

See: www.KinkMastery.com I live 24/7 Master/slave lifestyle and have since 2002 both as Master and slave. My Owner and I present and do "weekend intensives" internationally and at BDSM conferences practically every month.

Organizations
Masters And slaves Together (MAsT) National Leather Association - International (NLA-I) National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF)

Publications
+++ BDSM Mastery—Basics: your guide to play, parties, and scene protocols. +++ BDSM Mastery—Relationships: a guide for creating mindful relationships for Dominants and submissives +++ Master/slave Mastery: Updated handbook of concepts, approaches, and practices +++ Master/slave Mastery--Advanced: Refining the fire; ideas that matter +++ Master/slave Mastery--Protocols: Focusing the intent of your relationship +++ Is THAT What They Meant? A book of practical communication insights

Education/Credentials
PhD, Urban Education Policy Studies with a minor in criminology, U of Wisconsin, Madison. EdM, Boston University with specialty in urban education Presented 80+ BDSM weekend conferences worldwide since 2007.

Awards and Honors
Pantheon of Leather Community Choice - Man, 2008

Past/Present Clients
Not applicable.

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