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We just bought the book "Bondage for Sex Volume1" and had fantastic sex using some of the bondage guidance. The results were, can we say, "sensationally orgasmic." We do have one safety question that someone may be able to answer - what if one of us is tied up and the other person has some type of accident, injury, or even a heart attack while the other is tied up? How do we prepare for the Bottom to escape their bonds if the Top has become incapacitated? We are 55 and 54 years of age and enjoying our first attempts at bondage for sex and are concerned if something happens to one of us while the other is tied up. Can anyone help us? Thanks so much

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Dear Mike,

If you are in reasonable health, I don't think you should be worrying about it that much. There are a lot of things, most of them random, that can go wrong in life and you can't prepare for all of them. If you have a condition that makes it likely that you may cash out during play, then perhaps you should learn to do knots that she can release if necessary.

Have fun!

Khaos

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I can answer questions about techniques in BDSM, especially about bondage. I also have plenty of experience in the psychological aspects of it, dominance, mind control techniques, and erotic hypnosis.

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About 14 years experience as a bondage Dom, kinkster, and swinger.

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I write often for http://KhaosTheory.com and published a book about lifestyle design and sexual dominance.

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I have been studying psychology, neurosciences, and the applied arts of BDSM for these 14 years I have been in it. Most of it is of very practical application and tested in the field. There are no diplomas on the wall, but consequently I am not bound by the limits and constraints of any medical or educational occupation.

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