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hi..just need to ask which do you think are the best free sites for finding a female sub or slave? we are a m/f couple, and are looking for the above. since collar me went off, all i can find here is a bunch of sites that dont seem to be too serious. anyway, if you would share some good sites that actually may get us a response, its very appreciate. thank you!!

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I would recommend attending munches, far more than just looking online. http://findamunch.com sources quite a few groups from Fetlife (which you should also try if you haven't already). Fetify.com is an up-and-coming website that I just joined, which is alleged to be the new CollarMe - I personally enjoy it, and it's growing very quickly. CollarSpace.com is still up and running, and that is considered the literal alternative to CollarMe. So any of those things should work.  

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I am open and willing to answer any questions involving BDSM that do not specifically concern illegal acts involving children or non-consensual assault against an unwilling party.

Experience

I have had BDSM experience in a professional capacity since 2005. As far as personal, non-professional experience, I have always taken the lead in relationships, friendships, and other situational interactions. I prefer to "wear the pants" so to speak. However, this is not to say I wear the physical pants: I am mostly seen wearing skirts.

Organizations
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Publications
Excitedly, this will be my first foray into professional writing about BDSM, however my vanilla writings have appeared in several publications online. I am the former main web editor of a very popular DIY website, writing articles about electronics, repurposing, and sustainability.

Education/Credentials
I have participated in many educational workshops held by Pro-Dommes. I have also hosted a few workshops involving BDSM issues. I have done extensive research on D/s power dynamics and BDSM. As far as education, however, professional sessions and interactions with clients have provided most of my experience.

Past/Present Clients
I have a multitude of both. I specialize in clients with physical handicaps, rare kinks, edge play, LGBT lifestyles, and other underrepresented or marginalized groups.

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