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Hello Madam
I recently discovered that i am inherently dominant from feedback of folks I meet on my daily routine. women curtsy often, ask to become pets,and sometimes submit themselves as slaves, But i'm very novice to this lifestyle even though it is appealing to me. I get referred to a lot as being pharaoh, but have a shallow understanding of the notion as far as the lifestyle is concerned.
would you be able to clarify for me?

thanks.

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maron,

As far as BDSM is concerned, there isn't a set definition of "pharaoh," however there is a sexual position of the same name (urban dictionary refers to this as "pharaoh fuck"). I am not aware of any usage of "Pharaoh" in an agreed-upon way. It is probably just a character trait of yours that leads the submissive women to refer to you in this way. Confidence, potentially arrogance, and take-charge behavior can lead people to view you as a "naturally" dominant personality.

Hope that helps.
Madame Rax.

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I am open and willing to answer any questions involving BDSM that do not specifically concern illegal acts involving children or non-consensual assault against an unwilling party.

Experience

I have had BDSM experience in a professional capacity since 2005. As far as personal, non-professional experience, I have always taken the lead in relationships, friendships, and other situational interactions. I prefer to "wear the pants" so to speak. However, this is not to say I wear the physical pants: I am mostly seen wearing skirts.

Organizations
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Publications
Excitedly, this will be my first foray into professional writing about BDSM, however my vanilla writings have appeared in several publications online. I am the former main web editor of a very popular DIY website, writing articles about electronics, repurposing, and sustainability.

Education/Credentials
I have participated in many educational workshops held by Pro-Dommes. I have also hosted a few workshops involving BDSM issues. I have done extensive research on D/s power dynamics and BDSM. As far as education, however, professional sessions and interactions with clients have provided most of my experience.

Past/Present Clients
I have a multitude of both. I specialize in clients with physical handicaps, rare kinks, edge play, LGBT lifestyles, and other underrepresented or marginalized groups.

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