BDSM/Cheating

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Question
Have you ever had a slave cheat on you? If so, how did you find out? If they told you, then how did they go about it? What was your reaction and the consequences?

Answer
Cleo,

No, I have never had a slave cheat on Me. I believe that fidelity is paramount to a good relationship with BDSM. If they lie to Me, they are no longer My slave. If they cannot keep faithful and devoted to Me with all of their available life, I have no use for them. That indicates poor impulse control, a lack of self-discipline, and the wandering eyes component isn't something I will tolerate. Either I am everything, or I will make Myself nothing to a slave, by removing Myself from their life. There should be no time in their life to consider other Dommes, let alone actually taking action with one. In fact, I require chastity for most of My slaves, though the married ones get a pass, sexually.

Madame Rax.

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Expertise

I am open and willing to answer any questions involving BDSM that do not specifically concern illegal acts involving children or non-consensual assault against an unwilling party.

Experience

I have had BDSM experience in a professional capacity since 2005. As far as personal, non-professional experience, I have always taken the lead in relationships, friendships, and other situational interactions. I prefer to "wear the pants" so to speak. However, this is not to say I wear the physical pants: I am mostly seen wearing skirts.

Organizations
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Publications
Excitedly, this will be my first foray into professional writing about BDSM, however my vanilla writings have appeared in several publications online. I am the former main web editor of a very popular DIY website, writing articles about electronics, repurposing, and sustainability.

Education/Credentials
I have participated in many educational workshops held by Pro-Dommes. I have also hosted a few workshops involving BDSM issues. I have done extensive research on D/s power dynamics and BDSM. As far as education, however, professional sessions and interactions with clients have provided most of my experience.

Past/Present Clients
I have a multitude of both. I specialize in clients with physical handicaps, rare kinks, edge play, LGBT lifestyles, and other underrepresented or marginalized groups.

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